HOW CAN YOU TELL?

WHAT HAPPENS to you when you meet a NEW person for the FIRST time?

Do your palms start to sweat?... OR perhaps you can't think of anything to say?... OR you become self-conscious? do you stutter when you try to speak?... OR do you just want to curl up in a ball and hide?

HOW can YOU tell when you are being ATTACKED from WITHIN?... OR does it NEVER happen to you?... OR is Career Networking and Personal Marketing NOT IMPORTANT?

WHAT IF YOU CAN'T TELL

THE fear of failure and the fear of rejection are CLEAR ATTACKS from WITHIN that are EASY to spot... BUT there are some fears and attacks that we CAN'T... SUCH as the fear of SUCCESS.

The fear of success is more scary because it is often unconscious and escapes our radar because its INDIRECT. Spend a moment and you quickly notice it’s not fear of success that is the problem but rather the fear of what success demands from us.

Fears that are allowed to grow under the cover of darkness have a tendency to get stronger to the point we no longer trust ourselves to survive them. Hence I ask "What if you CAN'T tell" and how MANY have you uncovered around fear of SUCCESS?

A DRAIN on your ROE

What INVISIBLE FORCE feels like such a massive DRAIN on our "RETURN ON ENERGY" that like cashflow unmanaged will send you broke.

Perhaps before we go into that watch this video by Anthony De Mello and catch a glimpse of what we are dealing with and see if you can notice how that is behind the cause of your energy drain and how that is like pouring water into a colander and expecting the water not pour out.

What drain is a constant craving for approval, appreciation, praise, acceptance, success, popularity, encouragement, belonging

What drain is in our terror of being denied.

ENERGY FLOW is like Cashflow... if you DRAIN your reserves FEEDING off the drug FASTER than you replenish OFF the drug energetically you will go BROKE.

A Human Controled by a Drug

TO WHAT EXTENT is it a drain HAVING a constant craving for approval, appreciation, praise, acceptance, success, popularity, encouragement, belonging in our job, our interview, our projects, our contracting career AND... getting ourselves weened OFF that energy vampire in a healthy way IMPORTANT?

Question: So how DO you get OFF it?

If the people seated in the room were hard core addicts and they did nothing more than passively listen to Anthony speak, what chances would you give them for getting off the drug? What advice would you give them?

Our Self Esteem under THREAT from WITHIN

Security Experts KNOW that a threat OFTEN is most dangerous from WITHIN

Everyone expends massive effort, energy and cost to guard against attack from 'out there' such as going for an INTERVIEW... WHEN our most deadly attacks come from someone whom we know and TRUST the MOST and suspect LEAST... our SELVES.

Let me show you how our greatest enemy is our selves... AND how our self esteem is under massive attack (by our selves) from WITHIN

Protect your SELF ESTEEM from the ATTACKER within.

Protection is just 15 minutes away

Your Greatest Fear

Sometimes its not just situational like an INTERVIEW but appears more general that upon closer examination is actually more deeply and pervasively ingrained.

IS my age SHOWING?
Animals smell fear... Did you know that humans have that sense too.. We think we can hide but how good are we at it?

Is it true.. you are in your 30's and...

you experience your greatest fear in risking disharmony through disclosure of what you feel to be unjust. Your challenge is to be willing to discard personal illusions of balance and objectively express your power in a relationship in order that a new and greater harmony can be established. PinL

OR you are in your 40's and...

you experience your greatest fear in risking the criticism of others through a commitment to your sense of duty. Your challenge is to serve others on practical levels even though you may not have attained the perception of self-perfection you seek.. PinV

OR perhaps

you experience your greatest fear in the area of expressing your emotions honestly through your sense of drama and creative talents. Your challenge is to risk the disapproval of others for a larger sense of self-approval through open and powerful self-expression.

BUT OUR GREATEST F.E.A.R. that is so pervasive and for most will last a LIFETIME is caused in part by the unknown and in part by loss of love and connection and we get protected from it by what can be seen as the Attack From Within

WELL may the Nazerean say to FEAR NOT. Its easy for him to say... PERHAPS it would have been better if he just gave a few tips on HOW you do that? ONE thing I DO know is that it helps to ASK "Is it True" and then to talk about what you found is true

Protection from what is keeping you timid and potentially unattractive that you want to protect the interviewer from is just 15 minutes away

What STOPS you from being the SOURCE of your SELF

I strongly urge you not to brush the thought of being the SOURCE of your OWN self aside too quickly... because it is at the CENTRE of any freedom you may LACK in your IT Career

WHAT STOPS you from experiencing your IT Career completely, fully, and freely is the 'Attacker From Within'... BECAUSE it says that the SOURCE of YOU is NOT you... but something OUTSIDE of you... perhaps your aging title... or perhaps your less than impressive performance review... or perhaps you increasingly not being included... or perhaps you no longer being treated like the big shot...

To come straight to the point the SOURCE of YOU does not originate from you but what others think about you.... and the SOURCE of THAT is the 'Attacker from Within'